I need help.
What do I do, when someone I know, who was once very mean to me, (for no fault of mine, none that I know of), stopped talking to me, and now, all of a sudden wants to be friends again.
I am not that forgiving to forgive and forget, but I really dont want to spend any more time fighting or arguing or explaining. So should I just give in?
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8 years ago
6 comments:
You don't have to explain yourself. You don't have to do anything you don't want to.
That's a tough one... I think I would have just given a cold shoulder... But that's not always possible, is it?
Forget and Forgive. If the person has to tell you the reason he/ she will, otherwise also it's ok. but, don't ask.
havent you been here before :-)
David: You are right. I wish I could be that firm.
Aditi: True, its not always possible, coz when you are giving the cold shoulder, you are painfully aware that you are doing so.
Anon: I am slowly getting used to the concept. Its a lot stressful that way. Be the bigger person...all the good things.
Satya: :) It was easier then. That time, the person was a very good friend as well :)
I know I'm a little late on this one..
Very recently I had this exact same situation happen to me. She was my "best friend forever" in the 9th grade and for no reason she stopped talking to me one day. We didn't talk for about 13-14 years. She got in touch with me last month and we took off where we had left it. I thought I'd be a little skeptical about the whole thing initially, but we talked about it and it's not an issue at all.
Moral - In this short life, it is especially important to keep your friends forever (provided the person is important enough in the first place).
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